Get some useful advice on online dating
Some people are happy to receive as many letters from their net pals as possible. However, very often it turns out that for this or that reason you can not continue corresponding with a certain person. It means it is time to give a refusal. How to refuse properly? Maybe it is better just to stop writing letters to this person? Let us see, what is advisable to in similar situation.
If you do not feel in the Internet like a duck to water, and your foreign language knowledge is far from perfect then it seems to be rather difficult to understand some things, and first of all to estimate them adequately. Especially it concerns understanding foreign people. It is possible that you will face misunderstanding, or maybe you will take offence yourself or offend the person that is actually not to blame for your incorrect estimation or poor knowledge of language. A unique way to avoid such misunderstanding is a polite answer. Even if you are not right, explaining your state politely will help you to avoid mutual insults and, probably, break, with person really suitable for you. If, on the contrary, a person does not suit you, politeness must be the best way to separate from each other without beginning relationship. And to illustrate this theme, I shall bring some examples of letters - refusals offered by foreign men.
Thank you for your nice letter. I appreciate the effort but you are not the kind of person that I am looking for.
Thank you for writing, however, after looking over your profile, I see that you're looking for something a bit more different than what I am seeking right now. It would be a better use of your time to pursue other members who better match what you are looking for. Good luck.
Thank you, so very much, for your delightful letter. I am flattered by your attention. However, I must tell you that I have recently made a wonderful connection here and am absolutely compelled to pursue it. It would be contrary to my fundamental self to engage in a dialogue with someone else, at this time. I do, however, intend to maintain my Ad on this site until such time that I have committed to that special someone. I would expect that there are many other men that would express an interest in knowing you. Again, thank you and good luck. Best wishes for a bright future.
Natalie
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