The emigration of Russian girls
Mass medias write a lot about the emigration of Russian girls abroad. Today thousands of women want to marry foreigners and leave Russia. Most of them know about the consequences that can follow after the unsuccessful marriage: they will have to go back, and if they have children they will stay with their fathers.
But why Russian women can't find a good husband there?
The main reason why Russian women are disappointed in Russian men is that many men think that they are a part of privileged class. They can choose any woman they like, they get better job, their opinion is more important then the women's one etc. They also think that a woman must be grateful to them because they have chosen her and become a mother and a housemaid. Moreover they must forget all their wishes and hopes and devote their lives to the husbands for them.
But it's interesting that the opinion about men and their unfaithfulness to their wives exists only in Russia. In other countries this situation is not accepted: friends won't support such gentleman and the wife will stop any relationship at once. The husband will have to pay alimony to her, even if she doesn't have a child. Besides that all people are afraid of illnesses, especially of AIDS. So the family is the most important thing for them and a woman can be absolutely sure in her safety.
Probably some of Russian women like to regard their husbands as their children, but not all of them. So that is the reason why Russian girls even if they are about 20-25 years old, try to find a foreign husband. They don't want to have a negative experience of unhappy marriage and then to seek for another father for their children.
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